Friday, January 22, 2021

The Adventures of Sadie and Sue: Episode 365

 

I’ve decided these episodes need not follow any particular numerical order. Some things are linear in life and some are not.  Creativity should have the freedom to bounce around wherever it might alight.

Happy New Year friends. Sadie and I have jumped into 2021 with gusto. She started the year with several of her best friends, Jake, Nolan and Kase.  I welcomed the year meeting 1000 new friends at a weeklong meditation retreat on a beautiful island with the additional blessing of having my sister there with me.

Picture walking on the beach for sunrise and sunset meditations, heart felt conversations, and an energy of love that likely spread so far as to dance on distant shores. It was powerful, mystical, humbling and the integration of information is still fueling my soul.  

What better compass could one hope for to navigate another trip around the sun.

2021 is not about planning and striving and yearning for things to be a certain way. It’s about letting go. Cleaning out the gunk that may still lurk in the shadows of my past. It is a gentle, yet fierce excavation that leads to a deeper dive of creating what I do want to experience. To allow, receive, to be and feel worthy. These are powerful words, each deserving of its own muse.

It’s a year to celebrate wins. This week marks 365 days of walking at least 10,000 steps each and every day. One full year with no excuses. I made it happen and it was pretty easy. A bit of focus, will and determination was helpful. I figured if I could do it on the day I fell and broke my arm, there wasn’t much that could stand in my way as long as my feet work. Sadie was with me for many of those walks. We knew that this was something we did have control over when the outer world seemed to show something different.

Dating in this day and time deserves a gold badge of courage.  However, I am happily discovering how easy it can be to let go of people who need to be on a different bus. This is a big win. It invites a tender vulnerability to sharpen my vision and allow my heart to open even wider in that letting go. The relationships I have in my life are precious, and I want to bring my best self to each and every one of them. Those relationships that do not serve me dissolve into nothing and are non-consequential. As a recovering ruminator, that’s empowering, don’t you think?

I wake up each morning grateful for my beautiful life. For the aroma of my favorite cup of coffee as I sit at my desk and write. For the opportunity to envelope my family and friends in the biggest circle of love and appreciation many times throughout the day. To drink in fresh air and the beauty of a brilliant blue Colorado sky edged up against the crispness of the mountains.

Sadie and I will be in touch soon. Until then, wishing you magical moments and much love.

Live a great story, friends.

Sadie and Sue