This episode is out of order of the others, but who cares?
It’s been a year. Expect the unexpected
has taken on new meaning.
Sadie and I have been out of touch for a while. Let’s get
caught up. We will start with the important stuff. Sadie is her sweet chill
self. She was happy when the dog park re-opened after the initial COVID surge
and she’s keeping her paws crossed no further closures are necessary. She still
chases balls and eyes the multitude of rabbits who live in the ‘hood who have
no understanding of social distancing.
We navigated the year mostly unscathed.
Sadie and I were out for a walk in April following a late
spring snowstorm and I took a pretty nasty slip on ice. She was off leash but
came right back to me as I hobbled home and discovered I had broken my arm. It
took a few months to heal but we had amazing support from family and friends.
My sisters came from Florida, despite the pandemic and offered much comfort and
help. A good friend came and walked
Sadie twice a day for months, as I regained strength in the arm and shoulder. What
a relief to know Sadie was getting the exercise she needed when I wasn’t able
to provide it.
We’ve managed several direct exposures and self-quarantined until
results came back (negative).
The social isolation can feel daunting.
However, I squeezed in a few trips away. It’s still so
strange to see everyone wearing masks. Eye contact is fleeting. I know everyone
is doing the best they can, but it seems otherworldly.
It’s been a year. Pandemic, wildfires, hurricanes, a presidential
election. Such a time of extremes.
What better time to make huge decisions?
Huge Decision #1: Stepping away from my full-time job in December.
Taking a bit of time off and then re-focusing on doing more of what I really
want to do. To write. Trusting deeply within the unknown that a new path is
emerging that is not dependent on outward appearances. It feels amazing!
Huge Decision #2: Decided it is time to get out of the stand
and onto the field and explore dating. During an international pandemic, you
might ask. Well, I’ve asked myself the
same thing, but why not? Where do you meet singles during this weird time? After
swearing up and down I would never do so again, I’m making a foray into the
world of online dating.
Spoiler alert: Online dating is not for the weak of heart. But
with an attitude of curiosity, I’ve chatted with some nice guys who have the
same badge of courage. Sadie is right there with me as I create my profile and
she mostly approves of the photos I include of her. She and I are a team.
Again, this is a time to trust deeply that a new path is
emerging that is not dependent on outward appearances.
Here we are in November, in the home stretch of 2020. I am grateful
for my family and friends. For the energy of love that transcends anything
else. The crazy twists and turns have upended
many plans. It’s ok. It’s helped me sink deeper into trust and to make new
plans.
Be well, my friends. Sending each of you a ton of love, support,
and virtual hugs.
Until next time, live a great story.
Sadie and Sue
