The Adventures of Sadie and Sue: Episode 2020

 

This episode is out of order of the others, but who cares? It’s been a year.  Expect the unexpected has taken on new meaning.

Sadie and I have been out of touch for a while. Let’s get caught up. We will start with the important stuff. Sadie is her sweet chill self. She was happy when the dog park re-opened after the initial COVID surge and she’s keeping her paws crossed no further closures are necessary. She still chases balls and eyes the multitude of rabbits who live in the ‘hood who have no understanding of social distancing.

We navigated the year mostly unscathed.

Sadie and I were out for a walk in April following a late spring snowstorm and I took a pretty nasty slip on ice. She was off leash but came right back to me as I hobbled home and discovered I had broken my arm. It took a few months to heal but we had amazing support from family and friends. My sisters came from Florida, despite the pandemic and offered much comfort and help.  A good friend came and walked Sadie twice a day for months, as I regained strength in the arm and shoulder. What a relief to know Sadie was getting the exercise she needed when I wasn’t able to provide it.

We’ve managed several direct exposures and self-quarantined until results came back (negative).

The social isolation can feel daunting.

However, I squeezed in a few trips away. It’s still so strange to see everyone wearing masks. Eye contact is fleeting. I know everyone is doing the best they can, but it seems otherworldly.

It’s been a year. Pandemic, wildfires, hurricanes, a presidential election. Such a time of extremes.

What better time to make huge decisions?

Huge Decision #1:  Stepping away from my full-time job in December. Taking a bit of time off and then re-focusing on doing more of what I really want to do. To write. Trusting deeply within the unknown that a new path is emerging that is not dependent on outward appearances. It feels amazing!

Huge Decision #2: Decided it is time to get out of the stand and onto the field and explore dating. During an international pandemic, you might ask.  Well, I’ve asked myself the same thing, but why not? Where do you meet singles during this weird time? After swearing up and down I would never do so again, I’m making a foray into the world of online dating.

Spoiler alert: Online dating is not for the weak of heart. But with an attitude of curiosity, I’ve chatted with some nice guys who have the same badge of courage. Sadie is right there with me as I create my profile and she mostly approves of the photos I include of her. She and I are a team.

Again, this is a time to trust deeply that a new path is emerging that is not dependent on outward appearances.

Here we are in November, in the home stretch of 2020. I am grateful for my family and friends. For the energy of love that transcends anything else.  The crazy twists and turns have upended many plans. It’s ok. It’s helped me sink deeper into trust and to make new plans.

Be well, my friends. Sending each of you a ton of love, support, and virtual hugs.

Until next time, live a great story.

Sadie and Sue